Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Long Distance Relationships: Lesson #2


Jace, My love, your lesson tonight is this: use your cell phone charger(s).  If your vehicle's cell phone charger breaks - buy another one.  

I have been walking around tonight thinking about all the things I need to do before spring break springs on upon us but I just can't force myself into action yet.  I've got no fire under me.  I wish I could talk to you tonight.  I wish I could ask a hundred questions about the house.  What did the framers accomplish today?  How did the front door look?  Are the windows on their way?  Is the electrician still coming tomorrow?  Do you still miss me?  Do you still love me?  Do you remember our children's names?  It just doesn't feel right going to bed without our nightly ritual of good night phone calls.  I can still hear Ezra tossing and turning in the other room.  He's probably wondering why that one guy still hasn't called.

My heart tonight is remembering earlier days on Paloma,  when I would wait around for a nightly phone call.  When it would come, my heart would skip a beat and I would take the call in the privacy of my upstairs bedroom on the phone that looks an awful lot like this:

On the phone that Macy discovered at Grandma Mikey's years back, took claim of and now conducts conversations with Troy Bolton on.   I haven't told her anything about the many forbidden conversations, tears, and secrets that have been whispered thru that phone.  

My old conversations were almost always interrupted by Jordy Fuentes on call waiting.  Fights over phone minutes and usage would always ensue.  

I'm sure glad those days are over.  

Well, the fighting and the whispering and the waiting for the wrong boy to call are over.  And don't get me wrong, I'm thrilled the Fuentes family decided to extend their "conversation" into eternity and thrilled Jessica and I no longer have to share phone minutes but I'm afraid the pathetic waiting around and the ol' heart skipping a beat and the wishing I could take the call in the privacy of my own room - I still experience nightly.  

Only this time it's the right boy on the other end of the line (when he chooses to call).  Now if only I could find him one of those solar powered cell phone batteries so he'd never run out of juice, we could talk all night long about exterior paint, school assemblies, invoice #748, diarrhea, roof shingles, and address changes.  How romantic.  I bet he can't hardly wait for tomorrow's call.

Sleep tight Babe.

9 comments:

The Baum Family said...

Funny! Dallin's phone died today at noon for being on it so much and I was unable to get a hold of him. He has had to use my only form of transportaton now for 2 weeks and I was in need of formula. Ugh! How did they survive back in the day without cell phones. I can't even make it 7 hours without going crazy. Hope you hear him soon.

The Baum Family said...

I mean hear FROM him soon! Buh bye!

Addie Gaylord said...

i loved it!!! that will be an errand for me today, jace needs a car charger.
i loved to read about the late night phone calls on paloma. so many memories :)

Fuentes Family said...

Oh I can't wait for these days to be over for you...Although you probably get to talk more through the phone than when you are actually with him. That seems to be the case with me anyways.
It's amazing what you folks can accomplish in such a short period of time. I'm looking forward to seeing the place and seeing you guys. We don't see you ever for very long. Here's to a fabulous spring break!
BTW, I'm glad those days are over too!

DeAnne Baum said...

Oh, Lindsay! I dread those long days I can't get a hold of my husband. I hope it all ends soon. Are we seeing you all this next week? Send that sweet Macy right on over after school. Did you survive the ride home on Sunday? (with the extra passenger)

J6 Lewis Family said...

Hey there! Great hearing from u. I can't relate. I think Jer gets way enough face to face talk as we are workin together. He probally wishes my self charger would run out sometimes. Jk. Anyway,so u surviving through all the changes? Lifes crazy!!! I hope u have a great spring break. Remember all the camping trips for the breaks we'd take. Well my fam is meeting at Roosevelt. Fun times. Hope my kids enjoy it like we use to. Love ya. Tell everyone hi.

Hall Family said...

Lindsay, I so enjoy reading your blog. I laugh, cry, then laugh some more! You have such a great way with words, and express your feelings so openly. I love it! We miss seeing you guys! Guess we will have to invade the "NEW" house when it's finished...you'll be back in the groove...Great Family, Great Fun, Same old get togethers...new location! WE love you! Elisa

Mutt and Karlee Hall said...

So I clicked on your blog today- to tell you it was good seeing you yesterday. I just LOVE all the Seaman girls so that includes you too! I can't imagine having the long distance thing- I'm glad it's almost over! You sure do have a way with writing. I guess I have noticed all of you girls do. I love it! You'll have to post pictures of your new house...I'm curious to see what you guys have done. I'm happy that you guys get to reunite as a family again and have a new home too- that's so exciting!!

Dan and Kirsten Flake said...

Linds- have i mentioned this? Move down there with you esposo (spanish for husband)! I can't believe you still have your head on straight. Cute post, none the less.